Sunday, September 9, 2007

人间菩萨或笨蛋傻瓜

你可曾被人伤害过?
在伤痛之时,

明了伤害你的是身边最信任的朋友。

为了什么?

为了妒嫉你找到幸福。


你可曾被人陷害过?
在潦倒之时,

明了陷害你的是身边最可靠的同事。

为了什么?

为了嗔恨你获得名利。


你可曾被人压迫过?
在悲痛之时,

明了压迫你的是身边最亲近的家人。

为了什么?

为了上一代给你权利。


你可曾被人欺骗过?
在懊恼之时,

明了欺骗你的是身边最疼爱的伴侣。

为了什么?

为了私心、欲望。


你可曾被人利用过?
在愤怒之时,

明了利用你的是身边最疼惜的孩子。

为了什么?

为了你大半辈子的产业。


当你无所顾虑的帮助,无条件的付出,
换来的是出乎意料,以怨报德、恩将仇报。


当你欢喜听到对方的期许,高兴接受对方的承诺,
换来的是甜言蜜语,虚情假意,一派胡言。


独自处理烂摊子,两手扛起重担,双肩盖上莫须有罪名;
听着闲言闲语、背着冷嘲热讽、忍着指指点点。


单独接受事实,面对现实,处理事事,放下实事;
亲身体验持般遭遇,您做得到宽容大量、忍辱、宽恕吗?


为什么?


为了他,曾是您最信任的朋友;

为了他,曾是您最可靠的同事;

为了他,曾是您最亲近的家人;
为了他,曾是您最疼爱的伴侣;

为了他,曾是您最疼惜的孩子。


假如,你身边真有这样的一个人,
为了“情意”、为了“信”、为了“爱”、为了了结“恩恩怨怨”,

希望今生留下“形象”、但愿来生无需“相欠”,

明了冤冤相报何时了,相信
冤家宜解不宜结,
鼓起勇气,打开心结,走上一条比古人更宽的道路,选择谅解宽恕。


这样的一个人,是人间菩萨,还是笨蛋傻瓜?
这样的一个人,值得被尊重,还是该瞧不起?


5 comments:

angel said...

曾经被朋友背叛,也曾心痛哭过。。
到最后还是原谅了她/他。。=.=
讨厌一个认真的不容易,有时看他孤零零一个人,自己又好像是罪人。。原谅别人自己也会开心点吧。。

Anonymous said...

Being hurt and betrayed by someone else is very hurtful and sad !! Last time being through all of that incident really killing me that time. When flashback now it will also hurt me deeply, mentally and physically.

Is really a person look is important to them ??? When they hurt & betrayed you is because of your look. After you had change your look to new, there will be gossip about it too.

Is that the truth, that only people who born with pretty and beautiful face and whatsoever get luck, friends and others they no need to work for it and they will get it???

It that being wrong and guilty when you born with ugly n fat outer look??? That you get hurt and betrayed by peoples that you always trusted and believe what they said too you???

Lots of people that I had meet before in my pass life told me that "You don't deserve a friend like her and him, because you are fatty...etc", "Can you become a Christian, so that my parents will let me be friend with you?? If no they won't like you." and etc.

Sometime I will think is that my fault, being born to this world and get hurt and betrayed by someone that I trust and I love.

Chow Sook Yee said...

Miss, my comment long right. Don't kill me or scold me. Just want to tell our my heart problem that still haunted me all this times.

Is there any way to solve all this problem without thinking it or thinking about it ??? Its just hard to forget about it. Because when I had forget about it all, then they will come back and haunt you again in other ways.

猪猪 @ PigPig - 平凡, 简单 said...

“执著”是痛苦的根源,“放下”是疗伤的解药。

玲 said...

经历过的是一幕幕的画面
为了画面
留下伤心的眼泪
画面会给你纸巾么?
画面会安慰你么?
画面会拥抱你么?

活着或许就是要学习 放手